I can’t seem to think of a catchy title for my entry, as I seem to ramble on about the same things most of the time. No sense in letting this page sit idle though.
I had something awesome happen recently – I found that we may be buying the house we’re living in. I know you’re thinking it’s not possible, but it’s true! I know….Montana? Well, you go where you can afford to live, and my career is here, so that’s why. We’ll know when we get our annual tax refund check, so I’ll post some updates as that date approaches. I hope it all works out though, as I have some ideas for this house, as well as wanting to get a malamute.
I have confessed to being a hopeless shopaholic fashionista, although my budget doesn’t buy much couture these days. I buy what I can afford, yet still looks good. Right now, my current faves are my knee-high black leather 5″ boots and 3″ hoop earrings (I think they’re 3″ anyway….). I need to go shopping for more OPI, as some of my current colors are starting to run out. Now that’s pretty sad.
So in about 4-5 months, I may be celebrating being at my job for 5 years AND being a homeowner. That’s something to look forward to at the least….plus people have grown accustomed to me both at the office and out on the town – or they’re just not saying anything…..probably more of the latter to be honest.
I just can’t get enough of watching this clip – it’s from Season 10 of Friends: “The One With Ross’ Grant” Enjoy!
Yeah….by now anyone that knows me – and many that have seen me, know I adore a good pair of heels. I mean, why not? It’s just a fashion preference – nothing more. It’s no different from those wearing baggy pants or tie-dye t-shirts. It’s all about stupid societal stigmas that make people think it’s good or bad. I have no intention of turning back now though. Yeah, there are plenty of times when I know I’ll be doing a fuckton of walking – then it’s flats for me….but otherwise watch out, cuz here I come, strutting down the aisle!
To me, it’s as natural as anything anyone else does….there just aren’t as many people here doing what I do. That’s what makes us all unique in our own way – we all have our own passions and likes. Some have tattoos, some have hair dye, some have a bazillion Swatches – me? Gimme my stylish accessories anyday!
I still believe the most wonderful feeling is where there are a bunch of nerve endings all together in one area, and when properly stimulated, just sends your body out of control! It’s something one can never get enough of. 🙂
I’ve heard many arguments that “Oh you wouldn’t look good in that” or “Guys don’t wear those”, but I ask you seriously…..are THEY the ones wearing it? People will always be opinionated as to what looks good on whom, and the more daring you try to be, the more polarized the argument becomes.
The other thing I’ve heard is that anyone who dresses like I dare to MUST be gay! Let me dispell that runour right here and now. For one, I am a str8 boi, and two, I really don’t know any of my gay friends who choose to do what I do on a daily basis – for the most part, they look more manly than YOU do! Now granted there are days I sometimes wonder, but I’m still not attracted in the deep, meaningful way to guys as I always have been towards girls – so there’s that in a nutshell.
Back in Victorian times, both men and women were a pretty fancy bunch, but conservative thinkers and societal dogma has created the gender-based division we see nowadays. Even RuPaul said we’re all born naked, and what we wear on our bodies is considered drag.
It’s funny how many times I keep bringing this subject online. Maybe I should just write a book and publish it instead. Ah well….it keeps me busily happy.